You will never find anyone
To come along and take you by surprise
Because you’ve had too much to think tonight.
The Futureheads, Think Tonight
some sage advice from a silly song. i love it. of course, i also love the driving beat and punkish guitar, not to mention the hig-pitched 'ha ha ha ha's.'
i want to be taken by surprise! i want some great dude to show up when i least expect it. so obviously, i have to stop expecting it. i have to turn off the over-analyzing and the what-if fantasies that often play in my head before i go somewhere. it's hard when my head (and heart) have been over-analyzing for like 15 years. ridiculous, i know.
Thursday, July 24, 2008
too much to think tonight
as experienced by single/certain at 09:58
Labels: expectations, learn, over-analyze, song lyrics
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nice comment on the boundless blog. i about died when i read what she wrote. this is inappropriate as well, but the word i was thinking was "bitch."
lol, thanks sarah :) yeah, i know she has a good heart, but sometimes she comes off like, well, like that word you wrote :)
Aww, yeah, but that's so hard. Things are so different now. you know I've written about that whole least expecting thing and the too picky thing and all of that. I had a nice date with Swing. :)
Hi S/C -
This is Emily/Exchurchmouse. You will seem me flip flop between Emily and Exchurchmouse, depending on which mode I chose to use to sign in.
Sarah cool -
Hey - who was being a bitch?
Sometimes you gotta call it like it is, sister.
I think that I am kind of an anomaly for an American woman. I am really not interested in dating or men, but I do tend to feel connected to specific individuals and that leads me into trouble. I am in my late twenties, but I dated very heavily in my early twenties.
But if I am "crushless" I am quite happy. But when I am really interested in someone, then I tend to have trouble handling it when there isn't parity of interest. In fact, I tend to err on the side of caution by regarding everybody as a platonic friend - meaning I try to keep everyone on equal footing, regardless of who I am attracted to. Okay, I don't want to bore anybody so if you want to know more, I will email you.
I have to go to the bank and I have a party to get ready for, so I should really get my butt off my chair and get going.
Hey S/C,
Did you see you are the author of one of the top 100 christian relationship blogs according to these guys: http://www.10bestchristiandatingservices.com/blog/2008/07/top-100-christian-relationship-blogs/
Congratulations! ;)
omg! that is so cool, thanks learner! :)
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